Sexual and reproductive health is not an easy subject to discuss with a stranger. There are topics that you may find embarrassing especially when it comes to sexual habits and physical changes.
However, the relationship between you and your gynecologist should be transparent. You need to be utterly honest and provide complete information about your issues for a more accurate diagnosis. Remember, your gynecologist is here to help you.
Here are 6 things you should always discuss with your gynecologist during your appointment.
Top Things to Discuss With Your Gynecologist
Discomfort during sexual intercourse
When your gynecologist asks how many sexual partners you’ve had or whether you experience sexual discomfort, they are not looking to judge you.
There are various reasons why women experience pain during sex including STDs, vaginal infections, UTIs, vaginal dryness, or an injury. Even though sometimes the pain is caused by the sexual position, it’s important to discuss this with your doctor as it eliminates the possibility of the pain being caused by serious underlying factors.
Vaginal Odor
Vaginal odor is a sensitive topic which is why most ladies shy away from discussing it with their doctors. If you notice a distinct change from your normal smell into a foul smell, consult your gynecologist immediately.
This could be a sign of an infection or overgrowth of bacteria and is sometimes accompanied by a discharge.
Urinary or fecal incontinence
This condition is mainly experienced during menopause (1) or after childbirth particularly if it was a vaginal delivery of a large baby. Urinary and fecal incontinence can take a toll on you emotionally and affect the quality of your life.
There are treatment options available, both surgical and medical management, depending on the severity of your condition.
Swellings around the vagina
Talk to your gynecologist about any bumps or swelling around your vagina. They could be caused by an injury, ingrown hair, excessive strain on your vaginal muscles, etc. However, there are cases where the swellings are caused by a yeast infection, STDs, or allergies.
Despite most swellings being benign, you should discuss them with your gynecologists for immediate treatment.
Low libido
Low libido is a lot more common than most women realize. It could be as a result of medication, nature of your sexuality, or emotional stress. There are also times when the reduced desire to have sex is caused by an underlying medical condition, which is why you should highlight this to your doctor.
Painful periods
Never shy away from discussing your menstrual health with your gynecologist. Cramps are normal but there are times when the pain is very severe and keeps getting worse.
When this happens, you should let your gynecologist know because it could be an indication of uterine fibroids or endometriosis.
Highlight These Issues During Your Gynecologist Appointment
When it comes to sexual and reproductive health, the line between normal and potential health risks is thin. You should be honest with your gynecologist no matter how embarrassing or awkward a condition seems to be for correct diagnosis.
Links to sources used:
- Bladder Symptoms in the Early Menopausal Transition – NCBI – https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4876519/
