According to the American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists, girls should start seeing a gynecologist between the age of 13 yrs and 15 yrs (1). As your daughter hits puberty, you need to talk to her about sexual & reproductive health and ensure they get the right healthcare.
Teenage girls are very sensitive so you should handle their first gynecology appointment delicately. What should you do? How should you prepare her? Here’s all you need to know about your daughter’s first gynecologist visit.
Your Daughter’s First Gynecologist Visit
Choose a gynecologist
It’s important that your daughter feels comfortable with the gynecologist you choose. She’s already anxious about the first visit so make sure you involve her in the decision-making process.
Some of the questions you should ask her to include; do you want a young or older doctor? Male or female? Would you like to see my gynecologist or do you want someone with no connection to me?
Find out exactly what kind of doctor she would prefer and then find one.
Explain to her why it is important
At this age, your daughter probably associates all hospital visits with illness and might not understand why she has to see a gynecologist. The thought of discussing sex or having breast and pelvic exams may also make her feel nervous and embarrassed so you have to explain to her why a gynecologist visit is important.
Explain to her that she will get accurate information regarding her changing body and sex, learn about the prevention of pregnancy, or get treatment for conditions such as pelvic pains.
Tell her what to expect
Equip her with gynecologist appointment etiquette and prepare her for what to expect. She should know what the gynecologist will do (and why) and what questions she’ll be asked so that she’s not caught off-guard.
This will reduce her discomfort and ease her nervousness.
Address any fears or concerns she may have
Is she anxious about visiting the doctor? What are her main concerns? Find out what fears your daughter has and then try to address them as delicately as possible. Ask her if she wants you to accompany her to the doctor’s office or if she’d rather get in alone.
If she’s uncomfortable having you in the room, respect her wishes. You want her to be as honest as possible with the gynecologist.
Answer any questions she may have and reassure her that it is for the best.
Gynecologist Appointment Etiquette for Your Daughter’s First Visit
Your daughter’s first gynecologist visit is a big milestone. While this is exciting to you, it could be nerve-wracking to your daughter. To ensure she’s comfortable, allow her to pick her doctor, tell her what to expect, and address any fears he may have.
Links to sources used
- When Should My Daughter First Go to the Gynecologist? – https://kidshealth.org/en/parents/first-gyn-exam.htm
